About Kristen · formerly Kristen RB Peterson

You can call me Kristen. Or Honey.

I’ll answer to both. I’m a keynote speaker, author, podcast host, mom of four, and the founder of Butterfly Hill Nature Preschool, where mud pies were gourmet cuisine and sticks were wands.

These days I travel the world helping early childhood teachers fall back in love with play (and I will happily talk your ear off about loose parts).

↓ grab a donut. this is the fun page.
Kristen Day, formerly Kristen RB Peterson, smiling on a green couch in front of a pink wall
The quick version

Kristen, by the numbers.

17years in early childhood classrooms
5countries with keynotes (and counting)
8 to 3,500people in the room. same energy.
13,655+teachers in my free Play Basics course
1book with Routledge (and a LOT of opinions)
The long version

Seventeen years, four classrooms, one big plot twist.

Okay so. How does a girl with a B.A. in elementary and early childhood education end up on stage in front of 3,500 teachers talking about mud? Pull up a tiny chair.

Kristen reading a picture book under a big tree to a circle of preschoolers in rainbow rain suits at Butterfly Hill Nature Preschoolbutterfly hill, where it all started
chapter one

Family child care, in my own home.

I lasted 10 months. Ten! Family child care is one of the hardest jobs in the whole entire world (I bow down to every single in-home provider out there).

chapter two

Public school, kindergarten through second grade.

Two years as the support teacher for the kiddos slipping through the cracks in math and reading. It didn’t take long to see the worksheets weren’t working, so we swapped them for games.

chapter three

Three years in a traditional preschool.

They told me it was play-based. I believed them. Back then I thought play was anything fun, even when it was super teacher-directed and the kids HAD to join in.

We planned those kids minute to minute to minute and almost never got outside (I know. I KNOW.). Behavior issues all day long. I went home with a headache every single night thinking, there has GOT to be a better way. Most of the stories in my book come from these three years.

It’s also where I started digging into real play-based learning, and where I figured out I couldn’t make the changes I wanted to make in that setting.

chapter four

Butterfly Hill Nature Preschool.

So I took a risk. I started Butterfly Hill with zero of my own dollars: a nonprofit play and nature-based preschool with a forest school, the first in central Minnesota.

Mud pies were gourmet cuisine. Sticks were wands. We read stories under the big tree in full rain gear (that’s us in the polaroid). It’s the most magical place in the world, and I am not even a little bit biased.

chapter five

Retired from the classroom. Hit the road.

Now I travel to schools and conferences teaching play-based learning, I host The Play Based Learning Podcast, and I wrote a whole book called I’m Not Getting Them Ready for Kindergarten. Plot twist: we ARE getting them ready. We just do it the play way.

Kristen Day laughing with her hand over her faceme, remembering calendar time
Confession time

I wasn’t always the play lady.

I did calendar time. I did rotating centers. I did worksheets (sooooo many worksheets). I was doing my best with what I knew.

So if you’re still doing some of that stuff? Hi. I see you. Zero judgment. Pull up a chair and let’s figure it out together.

always trust your cape, Kristen

What I believe

My play rules.

When I say play-based learning, this is what I mean. Feel free to tape it to the staff room fridge.

1

If you didn’t get dirty, you didn’t play.

If there’s no ring around the bathtub at night, I didn’t do my job that day.

2

Kids lead. Grown-ups follow.

Play-based means child-led and self-directed. A teacher-planned craft wearing a play costume doesn’t count (sorry, penguin beaks).

3

Three-year-olds get three-year-old experiences.

Pushed-down kindergarten can wait its turn.

4

Outside is a classroom.

Trails, puddles, sticks, bugs. All of it counts as curriculum.

5

Play IS learning.

The research backs it up. So do the kids.

6

Childhood reigns supreme.

In every classroom, on every schedule, every single day.

Off the clock

A few things you should know.

Single mom of four.

Yes, four. Coffee is a food group.

Summer girl, Minnesota address.

I live in Minnesota and I am a summer girl through and through. Give me the lake, the pool, and every single warm day.

12 years behind the chair.

I was a hairstylist for 12 years while I worked my way through college for teaching. Yes, you can ask me about your bangs.

Forever curious.

Lifelong learner, total investigator. Teaching showed me you can bring wonder right back into a room, for kids AND grown-ups.

The Lorax of early childhood.

I speak for the children. Sometimes that makes grown-ups a little uncomfy, and I’m okay with that. Uncomfy means they’re learning and starting to look hard at their own teaching. That’s all I can ask for.

I make stuff for teachers.

I spend a LOT of time building workshops and resources for teachers, and they all live in one spot.

Peek at the trainings →
Let’s play together

Wanna bring the play to your people?

Book me for your conference, your district, or your PD day. I’ll bring the energy and a whole suitcase of loose parts (plus, probably, a mannequin head. No clue what TSA thinks about that one).

cheers to play! ☀️

Kristen Day
& Play

Play-based learning keynotes, professional development, and digital courses for early childhood educators. Supporting the field since 2018. Formerly Kristen RB Peterson.

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